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25Feb/19

Sex Education – Abortion

When was the last time you used Mathematics other than the usual addition, substraction, division, multiplication and percentage in real life? Unless you’re an engineer or scientist I am sure that one never uses Sin, Cos Tan or E=MC2 and it was that awful class in 12th grade which haunts you even today!
 Imagine if your parents would have opted you out of the misery and told you for once that you can just throw away your Mathematics or Physics books and relax. What if they could have just signed a sheet of paper and excused you from mathematics or Physics? Well, as terrible as these subjects are, they are still important. Maybe you don’t use it in every day life, but it’s very useful at times and sex education is the same so everyone has to understand and learn about sex education. Children when they grow up get curious about sex, they ask questions, want to see movies which have the real acts in them but cant ask anyone due to the taboo or shame we carry. How do I ask about sex? Why is sex bad? What happens if we have sex? And this ignorance or illiteracy about Sex education leads to multiple problems not only socially but also physically and emotionally to a lot of girls and boys. Even if you don’t pre-plan to be sexually active, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t learn about sex and have knowledge, human anatomy, contraceptives, and the other relevant and important topics that make up sex education. Sex education is just as important as our studies in life, so why do we opt out of one but not the other? 
If one is not updated or does not have proper sex education, it may lead to early pregnancy which may lead to abortion. If one indulges in pre-marital sex due to the fun of it or if someone already has 3 children and accidentally get pregnant due to casual sex, these people have the right to terminate the pregnancy as not terminating it may lead to issues due to social pressures, financial burdens, peer pressures which in turn can take a toll on the mental health of the individual. Knowledge is required and is for everyone, and sex education shouldn’t be limited to certain people because of their parents thoughts and views. Easy access to detailed and comprehensive, medically accurate sex education is a human right. Similarly, easy access to abortion with proper guidance from a registered medical practitioner is also a human right.
Sex is an amazing and a natural part of any living being, and it happens with or without sex education it actually comes naturally. 72% of American most of the teens have had experienced sex or had intercourse and recently we have seen a surge in the early pregnancy with girls in their teens. 99% of Americans will have sex in their lifetime with one or multiple partners. As per the study only 20 states in the US require sex and HIV education be taught in schools but as per me, all states should have sex education. Sex is a basic and fundamental part of being human; but less than half of our states require sex and HIV education, and most of what is taught is sub-par and just a formality. Just because everyone refuse to talk about sex as one feels shame or a social taboo doesn’t mean it’s just going to go away. Its like a cat drinking milk with its eyes closed thinking no one can see her drinking the milk.
There are 35 states in the US that have laws that allow the parents to opt their children out of sex education which should be seriously looked at. these parents need sex education on why is sex education necessary, what is safe abortion? How can one use abortion pills? Until how many months it is safe to have abortion with pills? Where to buy abortion pill kit online? Can you opt your children in or out of mathematics? I respect and am all for religious freedom, but just because you or your religion does not support or allow abortion doesn’t mean your kids will too. It’s very important that teens get all the information they can, and then take proper decision about their own values as they would know what is right and what is wrong and this is their basic right too. One should never let religion or family values be a reason to keep students away from sexual health education. Don’t let your morals obstruct your kid’s learning and their future as you may be able to stop them from learning about sex but soon they will learn about it themselves and it may be a disaster due to their ignorance or illiteracy about the subject. 
How can we help our children? What can we do for them? What will happen if a girl gets pregnant? instead of feeling ashamed because of the social shame, peer pressure and social taboo, think about the child, help them get safe abortion. there are many websites which would help you get abortion pills at doorstep. Now you could even buy mtp kit online. However, you need to look at the health of the child first, be it your wife, sister, daughter or anyone in the family. Try and use contraceptives to avoid the situation but if you miss to do so then don’t shy away to go for abortion.
Sex education is utmost important. It has been proven time and again. We surely know students who receive formal sex education in schools are shown to first have sexual intercourse later than students who have not had sex education as their curiosity is supplied with adequate information and education. Sex education does not actually encourage teenagers to have sex but it does quite the opposite.  
Every teenager should have sex education incorporated into their schooling. It shouldn’t be optional but mandatory. It is our basic and fundamental duty as a society to educate the next generation. Currently, we are failing but that should not stop us from correcting our mistakes. Understand the children and help them in case they need you if at all they get pregnant rather than cursing them.